Don´t talk about it

Everyone is pregnant! It used to be 20 but now it is 30 - everyone is pregnant or just delivered. It is fun. The generation has finally left school and reached adulthood, takes over responsibilities and christmas -if at all- makes sense again. But for those around who are not busy yet with breast feeding, spit wiping or belly-button-pop-outs, a missunderstood and misstreated tiny minority, life is tough. You not only miss your party-pals you also get the poor-woman-left-behind-look. For some reason you haven´t reached the status of reproduction yet so something must be wrong with you. Men who are left over are cool, career driven machos only to be desired.

An interesting flirt-advise: he said: “If you meet a man, don´t tell him you want kids!” Well, isn´t that too obvious to hide?! At some point a woman is simply READY to have kids, it is in her DNA, there is nothing she can do about it. The point is a woman´s brain is not in her uterus - so by saying she want´s to have a baby, she means: sooner or later with Mr. Right! She is simply ready to go the next step but doesn´t go down that road with simply everyone. It seems though that men in that age, who are still single, aren´t ready at all. They may never have left boyhood to become men, who are able take care of their offsprings. Guys let me tell you, there is hardly anything more manly then raising kids and becoming really cool dads. It is a duty that needs all the power and guts you have and I am afraid some guys just don´t have it. Playing around sounds too good. But don´t be scared - lucky you there are women who just know how to handle everything and love you for leaving the house in the morning. Don´t worry!! 

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