
Samstag, 23. Februar 2008
Chuchi Chäschtli

Donnerstag, 21. Februar 2008
Aging Tree-wise

Every branch tells its story about laughter and tears, worries, pain and happiness. when a tree is young it grows well it becames tall with big juicy leaves and soft branches who stretch out in every direction, curious and fearless. but then there comes an exciting though fierceful yet sometimes dreadful time of adjusting towards conditions of limiting influences. Fighting with the wind, bearing the drying sun and staying alive through the frost, just to battle even more - zillion enemies and competitors of alike and different nature. Only to become really beautiful, wise and strong, growing personality and character to withstand ever repeating dangers, adjusting that inner nature towards the outer conditions. The roots deeper in the ground providing a safe base, the inner branches strong, though mature and sometimes grumpy, ready to hold climbing youngsters and extra big towels. The outer ends still looking for the extra bit of sunshine but with different ambitions - careful, thoughtful but not less curious. After a while it all comes in balance and the roots just provide as much as needed above and only a certain number of leaves is useful to keep up the life cycle and yet expand as needed. In a long time from now it´s all wrinkly and odd schaped and strong roots deep down holding a whole world together by providing an all integrated habitat itself.
Sun rises, sun sets and rises again, it won´t change any time soon if astrophysicists can be trusted.
happy birthday!
Freitag, 15. Februar 2008
Wilhelma




Mittwoch, 13. Februar 2008
HappyHappy
The train took me to Stuttgart yesterday, where I purposely chose a hostel to stay although it was a work trip and I could have also gotten a decent hotel but hostels are much more fun. After a near death experience yesterday - my iPod and I were separated for about 20 minutes without knowing of each others whereabouts - I tried forever to be happy in this city, which I really dislike. I thought I need to be in a good mood to pursue my work. I have important meetings today and tomorrow. Well, it didn´t work. I still don´t like being here ....
I woke up this morning at around 4 am. I dreamed of something that really gave the creeps, so I was pretty depressed all morning. And then I found this article on HAPPINESS!! There is a whole scientific community working out how you can be happier! Why? To make us depressed! It displays all the factors (income, education, political participation, volunteer activities and close relationships) of people who consider themselfs as happy and which you may lack off and that´s why you are not as happy as you could (should) be.
The article is actually very interesting and tries to put it all in perspective. I especially liked: "But if you have positive illusions about your partner, which goes along with the highest levels of happiness, you're more likely to commit to an intimate relationship." :)
It also showes that not the happiest of the happy ones are the most driven. I know people who are constantly reasoning things in life, asking questions and trying to make an effort to improve their life and parts of the world, thereby achieving a state of mind and knowledge that is only to admired. But some of these are truely on the more sad side of life, if not constantly but more than others. Why is that? I think first of all, these people are able to see things that aren´t right, which if present all the time and forced to care about by your inner core, can be pretty depressing itself. Because I guess the question is: where to start and how to do it. And second pretty much as a consequence of first, it is pretty exhausting. Brain cells need relaxation too! Watch people who you consider depressed in a safe environment relaxing for while and I am pretty sure they will be just fine after a while. But it will happen again... (I am excluding people who might have a real clinical condition.) I am only saying I guess: don´t think you have to be happier if you are just fine it will all come naturally!! And don´t let others rule your needs for happiness since it only displays their inability to deal with your emotions.
And by the way, get a life, when starting to think about how to be happier! Get busy with something, improve your life in a sustainable way, try to change eating habits, energy use or activity levels. Get into a cycle of activity and rest and don´t panic if you panic! It is perfectly normal.
"But maybe, just maybe, the single-minded pursuit of happiness as an end in itself, rather than as a consequence of a meaningful life, has finally run its course."
Sonntag, 10. Februar 2008
SEALS!!!
